Food for thought...

"When a person hurts, their hurt is valid, regardless of the reasons why the hurt has happened. Our job is not to show them why they hurt, but to offer them comfort the best we can- with love, kindness, understanding and affection"
-Mark R.Littleton

I had this saved into my computer as a "good quote". I think we always try to show people why they are hurt or how we can fix it. Instead, we just need to love on the person.